It's been nearly 20 years since Mister Rogers, one of the most beloved TV figures in history, passed from stomach cancer. Throughout his lifetime, he's taught us invaluable life lessons about strength and acceptance.
Published Feb 26, 2021
It’s been 18 years since Fred Rogers, better known as Mister Rogers, died at age 74 after a battle with stomach cancer. Throughout his lifetime, the beloved TV icon taught us invaluable life lessons that were filled with love, strength, and community. This cancer warrior’s legacy lives on.
An acclaimed author, minister and creator of iconic preschool TV show Mister Rogers’ Neighborhood, Rogers’ love and positivity impacted so many. During the summer of 2002, Rogers visited his doctor complaining of severe stomach pains. After tests and evaluations, he was diagnosed with stomach cancer in October 2002. Initially, he delayed treatment in order to serve as the Grand Marshall at the Rose Parade in January 2003. Following the event, he went through stomach surgery, but passed away a month later.
This warm and beloved TV figure preached positivity to his audience, and in the process shared very important life lessons along the way.
Whether it’s towards people or learning about historical events, Rogers always stressed the importance of being mindful of struggles and always staying humble during adversity. It turns out, this lesson can be an extremely helpful tool when dealing with a cancer journey. Many experts say practicing mindfulness can be a helpful way to prioritize and strengthen your emotional well-being. This can be invaluable, especially since studies show that cancer patients who are able to stay positive can see better treatment outcomes.
Sometimes, it’s easy to believe that you’re completely alone and have no one in your corner. However, Rogers regularly emphasized that even if you have those thoughts, you are loved by many — even those you may not have assumed. In order to give love, it’s often necessary to feel the love from others. This can come in many different forms, whether it’s support or companionship. Feeling isolated during a cancer battle is common, especially since it’s a journey that others sometimes cannot relate to. However, in order to push through treatment, it’s critical to have a support system. This can reaffirm that you are loved and cared for.
In order to love others, the first step is loving yourself. This forces all of us to take a step back and embrace every side of ourselves — even the sides that we sometimes like to hide. Oftentimes, the first step in this process is accepting our vulnerability and parts of us that we perceive as weaknesses. In fact, experts have told SurvivorNet that embracing vulnerability is an essential step in pushing through cancer treatment.
It’s easy to believe that huge moments are make the biggest impact. However, that isn’t necessarily true — especially during something as difficult as a cancer journey. Sometimes, the smallest things, such as doing activities you enjoy, can make a world of difference. Special moments don’t always have to be huge celebrations, but instead something as simple as a walk in the park, quality time with a loved one or movie night. No matter what you do, always appreciate a special moment no matter how big or small.
Rogers always made it clear that we are all stronger than we may realize. Some people may only define strength as physical fitness, but it’s actually so much more than that. Strength comes in many different forms, and during something as difficult as a cancer journey, it’s pushed to the limits. However, many cancer survivors have told SurvivorNet that by facing cancer, it made them recognize how strong they all are. No matter what you’re going through, it’s important to channel all of that strength and try to overcome it.