Awareness Is Key
- Lily Murphy was diagnosed with stage four melanoma after her symptoms of back, neck pain, and difficulty breathing were dismissed as anxiety by her doctors. Her diagnosis arose seven years after she was first diagnosed with stage 1B melanoma at age 23. Now she’s sharing his story to inspire others to avoid tanning beds, use sunscreen, check anything unusual on their body and see a doctor when needed.
- Melanoma is the most dangerous form of skin cancer. It starts in the same cells that give your skin, hair, and eyes their color. In melanoma, the cells change in a way that allows them to spread to other organs.
- Changes to a mole you’ve had for a while or a new growth on your skin could be signs of melanoma, according to SurvivorNet’s experts. You’ll want to watch them and tell your doctor about any changes you notice.
- Murphy’s story reminds us how National Cancer Institute Chief of Surgery Steven Rosenberg told us in a previous interview,”If I had any advice for you following a cancer diagnosis, it would be, first, to seek out multiple opinions as to the best care because finding a doctor who is up to the latest of information is important.”
Murphy, who was first diagnosed with stage 1B melanoma at age 23 and has used tanning beds in the past, is now sharing her story to PA Real Life, as per the Independent, and is hoping to inspire others to push for answers when it comes to their health—as well as avoid tanning beds and use sunscreen.

After traveling abroad with some friends, she sought a second opinion on her unusual mole, prompting her doctor to tell her it “doesn’t look right,” later learning it was stage 1B melanoma.
To combat the disease shew had a wide local excision and a central lymph node biopsy in 2019. However, after “beating the disease” additional symptoms arose in January 2023.
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She told PA Real Life, “I was just constantly tired, and I couldn’t understand why. The following weekend I worked overtime and had back pain, so I thought I’d sat uncomfortably or something but then I woke up the next morning and had really bad chest pain and couldn’t breathe, and said to my mom it feels like something’s not right.”
Multiple trips to the hospital led her symptoms to be dismissed as anxiety as she had a history of mental health struggles. Thankfully, her mom pushed for her to undergo additional testing.
She started immunotherapy in April 2023, later trying two oral chemotherapy treatments, which she had a allergic reaction to. After combatting sepsis, she tried a new form of treatment in February of this year.
Now, with her Ban Sun Beds to Protect Against Skin Cancer petition in the UK, Murphy is hoping to make a change and help others prevent getting skin canacer.
“I’ve probably used sunbeds for less than an hour in total. Just going on a sun bed for six minutes can change your whole life,” Murphy warned.
“If I could stop just one person using sunbeds to save them going through what I’ve been through, it will be a miracle.”
The Dangers of Unsafe Tanning
According to the FDA, indoor tanning beds emit a type of UV ray, and UV exposure can increase the risk of skin cancer. (The sun also emits UV rays)
The National Center for Biotechnology Information published a 2011 study by Yale Cancer Center researchers examining indoor tanning and the risk of early-onset basal cell carcinoma. It concluded tanning beds were a “strong risk factor.
The study’s researchers said young people who tanned indoors had a 69% increased risk of early-onset BCC.
Indoor tanning was strikingly common in our study of young skin cancer patients, especially in women, which may partially explain why 70% of early-onset BCCs occur in females, a researcher Susan T. Mayne said to Yale Daily News.
Meanwhile, the American Academy of Dermatology says that just one indoor tanning session can increase the risk of melanoma by 20% and squamous cell carcinoma by 67%.
A study published recently in Cancer, a peer-reviewed journal of the American Cancer Society, suggests that banning tanning beds among minors would prevent thousands of cases of melanoma in adolescents and save millions of dollars in healthcare costs.
Studies have shown that exposure to tanning beds increases the risk of skin cancer and ocular cancer, says Dr. Lynn A. Cornelius, chief of the Division of Dermatology at Washington University School of Medicine in St. Louis, which also induces changes that lead to premature skin aging. There is no tanning bed.
Dr. Cornelius recommends spray tans and sunless tanning lotions as safer alternatives to tanning beds. While everyone should take precautions not to inhale the product when getting a spray tan, allergic reactions are rare, he said.
Understanding Melanoma
Melanoma starts in the same cells that give your skin, hair, and eyes their color. In melanoma, the cells change in a way that allows them to spread to other organs.
Changes to a mole you’ve had for a while or a new growth on your skin could be signs of melanoma.
You’re most likely to find melanoma on sun-exposed skin areas like your face, neck, arms, and legs. Surprisingly, you might also find them in other places as well, like:
- The palms of your hands or soles of your feet
- On your eyes or mouth
- Under your nails
The top way to protect yourself is by staying out of the sun, especially during peak hours, and avoiding unprotected sun exposure because ultraviolet (UV) radiation can lead to melanoma.
According to experts like Dr. Anna Pavlick, an oncologist at NYU’s Perlmutter Cancer Center, tanning beds pose ultraviolet radiation risks for skin cancer and should be avoided completely.
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Dr. Pavlick notes that people who are covered with moles stand a higher risk of developing skin cancer, especially people with dysplastic nevis syndrome, or “atypical” moles.
Atypical moles are those that are unusual-looking and, when seen under a microscope, they have irregular features. Although usually benign, a high number of atypical moles do signal an increased risk for melanoma, according to the Skin Cancer Foundation which says people with 10 or more atypical moles have 12 times higher risk of developing melanoma.
Warning Signs of Skin Cancer – Remember ABDCE
The most important thing to look out for when it comes to finding melanoma is a sudden, new spot on your skin or a spot that is quickly changing in size, shape, or color.
Dr. Cecelia Larocca, a dermatologist at Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, recommends implementing the ABCDE rule to determine if a mole requires further examination.
The ABCDE rule:
A: Asymmetry of the mole, or when one half of the mole doesn’t match the other
B: Border irregularity or Bleeding
C: Color change either lightening or darkening of a mole
D: Diameter greater than 6mm or enlarging moles
E: Evolving size, shape or color.
WATCH: Dr. Cecila Larocca on the ABCDEs of checking moles for signs of skin cancer
Melanoma that moves into the body, away from the skin, becomes an entirely different treatment journey for patients.
Treatment options for melanoma that has spread include targeted therapy and immunotherapy, which give people a better chance of living a long and healthy life than ever before. If you’re diagnosed with melanoma, there’s a good chance surgery will be the treatment your doctor recommends.
Cancer removal usually leads to a cure in the early stages of the disease. After surgery, the removed tissue and lymph nodes are examined to measure the melanoma and determine if it has clear margins. Clear margins mean the cells around the area of tissue that was removed don’t contain any melanoma.
When no cancer cells are left around the removed area, your cancer is less likely to return.
WATCH: Dermatologic Surgeon Dr. Nima Gharavi, On The “Gold Standard Treatment” For Melanoma
The Melanoma Workup
Unlike other diseases, the workup for melanoma is pretty straightforward. For any skin lesions, your dermatologist will give you a head-to-toe visual examination to look for any other atypical moles or suspicious lesions.
If a growth warrants further evaluation, you might get a biopsy. And if advanced melanoma is found, you may need additional imaging and blood tests to help determine the best treatment plan.
Blood tests may include:
Complete blood count (CBC): looks at the number and types of cells in your blood, including red blood cells, white blood cells, and platelets
Comprehensive Metabolic Panel (CMP): measures the blood levels of certain enzymes, proteins, electrolytes, and minerals
Lactate dehydrogenase (LDH): an enzyme that’s increased in many cancers
Imaging tests may include:
CT scan: uses x-rays and a computer to create detailed images of your body
PET scan: uses radioactive materials (called tracers) and a special camera to create pictures of areas inside the body where cancer may be growing
MRI: Uses radio waves and magnets to create images of organs and tissues
A pathologist may also examine your tissue sample under a microscope to look for certain mutations. This is called biomarker testing, which helps determine the best treatment options for you. The BRAF mutation is the most common mutation found in melanoma tumors.
It’s important to remember that many atypical skin lesions are not cancer. So don’t worry if your doctor finds something that looks a bit strange it may just be a benign growth. If you have any concerns about the findings, be sure to talk with your doctor.
Pushing for a Correct Diagnosis
When it comes to your health, you should always be a little pushy as you know your body better than anyone else. When you see a doctor for a problem, don’t hesitate to make sure that your question is fully answered and that you are comfortable with the plan moving forward. From a doctor’s perspective, every problem should have a diagnosis, a treatment, a plan for follow-up, and a plan for what happens next if the treatment doesn’t work.
As a patient, if you don’t feel like each of these four things has been accomplished, just ask. Even if it requires multiple visits or seeing additional providers for a second opinion, always be your own advocate.
Be Pushy, Be Your Own Advocate, Don’t Settle
Dr. Zuri Murrell, director of the Cedars-Sinai Colorectal Cancer Center, previously told SurvivorNet that healthcare guidelines are meant to do the right thing for the largest number of people while using the fewest resources.
“The truth is you have to be in tune with your body, and you realize that you are not the statistic,” he said.
Additionally, Dr. Murrell says not every patient will “fit into” the mold, so it’s important to “educate yourself and be your own health care advocate.”
“Every appointment you leave as a patient, there should be a plan for what the doc is going to do for you, and if that doesn’t work, what the next plan is,” Dr. Murrell added. “And I think that that’s totally fair. And me as a health professional that’s what I do for all of my patients.”
The Importance of Getting a Second Opinion
After receiving a diagnosis, like cancer, it’s important to remember that you can, and should, talk to other cancer specialists about your disease.
“If I had any advice for you following a cancer diagnosis, it would be, first, to seek out multiple opinions as to the best care,” National Cancer Institute Chief of Surgery Steven Rosenberg told SurvivorNet in a previous interview. “Because finding a doctor who is up to the latest of information is important.”
RELATED: Second (& Third) Opinions Matter When Deciding Between Surgery or Radiation
As we highlight in several areas of SurvivorNet, highly respected doctors sometimes disagree on the right course of treatment, and advances in genetics and immunotherapy are creating new options.
Also, in some instances the specific course of treatment is not clear cut. That’s even more reason why understanding the potential approaches to your disease is crucial.
At the National Cancer Institute, there is a patient referral service that will “guide patients to the right group depending on their disease state so that they can gain access to these new experimental treatments,” Rosenberg says.
Cancer Research Legend Urges Patients to Get Multiple Opinions
Furthermore, getting another opinion may also help you avoid doctor biases. For example, some surgeons own radiation treatment centers. “So there may be a conflict of interest if you present to a surgeon that is recommending radiation because there is some ownership of that type of facility,” Dr. Jim Hu, director of robotic surgery at Weill Cornell Medical Center, tells SurvivorNet.
Other reasons to get a second opinion include:
- To see a doctor who has more experience treating your type of cancer
- You have a rare type of cancer
- There are several ways to treat your cancer
- You feel like your doctor isn’t listening to you, or isn’t giving you good advice
- You have trouble understanding your doctor
- You don’t like the treatment your doctor is recommending, or you’re worried about its possible side effects
- Your insurance company wants you to get another medical opinion
- Your cancer isn’t improving on your current treatment
Contributing: SurvivorNet Staff
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