Born a Survivor
- Expectant mother Grace Adkins had what seemed like a normal pregnancy until her baby boy was born with a rare type of cancer called congenital spindle cell rhabdomyosarcoma, which affects the soft tissue
- Baby Luke had to have his arm amputated and undergo chemotherapy to beat the disease, and is thankfully now clear from cancer.
- Childhood rhabdomyosarcoma is a disease in which malignant (cancerous) cells form in muscle tissue. Symptoms of the disease can vary, but it's always important to bring your child to the doctor if any changes to their health occur.
“My pregnancy was perfect,” the Tuscaloosa, Alabama native told FOX6 news station. “We didn't know anything was going on while I was carrying him.”
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However, when he was diagnosed with cancer, the severity of the situation set in, especially when after the first-time mom learned that Luke’s arm needed to be amputated.
“We were just numb,” Grace shared of the news first hitting her. Doctors reassured her that was nothing she did wrong. Genetic tests were performed, but everything came up negative.
“I never thought that I needed to worry about my baby being born with cancer,” Grace said. “I didn't know that that happened. That's just not something you think about.”
Luke had to undergo chemotherapy, and at just three months old, had to have his forearm and elbow removed, leaving him with just his shoulder and upper left arm. The little guy suffered from vomiting throughout the horrific ordeal.
Thankfully, the worst is over with, and Luke will be okay.
“When I look at him, I just see a happy, fat little baby,” Grace said of her adorable son, who is now ten months old. “It's unbelievable how good he is doing considering everything he's been through.”
Grace takes comfort in knowing that Luke will have no recollection for what he endured. Fortunately and unfortunately, having one arm will be the only things he knows.
“He can do anything. He will be able to do anything. We will never treat him like he can't, and he'll be fine,” the hopeful mom shared, thankful that her son survived, which is what counts despite any issues down the road with his disability.
“Keeping a positive outlook, even when there just doesn't seem to be anything positive about it, you just have to keep going,” Grace said.
The family is overjoyed that Luke’s recent scans came back clear, and they will have to follow up with more scans in January.
“We are so thankful that God has given us the opportunity to be this little boy’s parents,” they shared on their Facebook page dedicated to their brave little warrior, called The Adventures of Luke.
What Is Childhood Rhabdomyosarcoma?
Childhood rhabdomyosarcoma is a disease in which malignant (cancerous) cells form in muscle tissue. Symptoms of the disease can vary, but it's always important to bring your child to the doctor if any changes to their health occur. Possible signs of childhood rhabdomyosarcoma can include:
- A lump or swelling that keeps getting bigger or does not go away
- Crossed eyes or bulging of the eye
- Headache
- Trouble urinating or having bowel movements
- Blood in the urine
- Bleeding in the nose, throat, vagina, or rectum
Caring for a Child with Cancer
Navigating a child's cancer diagnosis can be incredibly tricky something Jayne Wexler knows all too well. She had to fill the roles of parent and cancer caregiver when her son, Justice, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Thankfully, he has since recovered
In a previous interview with SurvivorNet, Wexler explained how she managed to be a mother and a caregiver all at once.
"Being a caregiver is a huge job," Wexler said. "Fortunately, my husband and family were very supportive … it's really hard to see your child go through this. If it could be me, I would take it in a second. You just go on auto-pilot and you just do what you have to do."
But that doesn't mean it was always easy. Wexler admitted that as a parent caring for a child with the disease, you don't have a lot of time to sit down and deal with your own emotions.
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"You don't have that much time for yourself," Wexler said. "I try to stay strong, but then sometimes you just want to go and cry, and you need to cry… it's good to cry."
The survival rate for children with cancer has improved over the past few decades, but pediatric cancer is still an incredibly hard thing for a family to go through. In her own caregiving experience, Wexler found therapy to be a great way to process everything happening to her family.
Bottom line, don’t be afraid to ask for help.
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