Singer Alan Jackson, Battling a Rare Nerve Disease, Credits His High School Sweetheart & Wife of 40 Years With His Biggest Hit

CMT causes “damage to the peripheral nerves the nerves that transmit information and signals from the brain and spinal cord to and from the rest of the body, as well as sensory information such as touch, back to the spinal cord and brain,” according to the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke. The disease can also "directly affect the nerves that control the muscles."

It’s great to see how appreciative Jackson is toward his wife, especially since they been through a lot over the past 40 years, between his battle with nerve disease and her colorectal cancer diagnosis in 2010.

Jackson’s official social media page shared a sweet photo this week of the musician and his wife sitting in an old fashioned convertible.

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Accompanied by the heartwarming throwback photo, was a recording of Jackson looking back on what inspired one of his most popular songs .

“Alan reflects on the story of ‘Remember When’ and his life with his wife Denise,” the post was captioned. “He discusses how it connected with audiences and why it's a fan favorite!”

Alan reflects on the story of "Remember When" and his life with his wife Denise. He discusses how it connected with audiences and why it's a fan favorite! #RememberWhen20 pic.twitter.com/NrtKeq2hjX

— Alan Jackson (@OfficialJackson) August 3, 2023

In the recording, Jackson is heard saying, ” Denise and I met as kids and all that’s true.  And most of that is just reflections of our life and some of it looking ahead. But I’ve had so many comments saying, ‘Hey, that’s one of my favorite songs,’ or, ‘That’s our song.’

“I have so many couples come up and say, ‘That’s our song.’ All that stuff and how many times everybody said, ‘Remember when?’ You know?… ‘Remember when we did this? Remember When we did that?'”

He concluded, “So again, it connected with a certain audience. I guess.

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Some of the lyrics in the song include: “Remember when we vowed the vows and walked the walk/ Gave our hearts, made the start and it was hard/ We lived and learned, life threw curves/ There was joy, there was hurt/ Remember when.”

Another verse is as follows, “Remember when we said when we turned gray/ When the children grow up and move away/ We won't be sad, we'll be glad/ For all the life we've had/ And we'll remember when.”

In another social media post, Jacksons page shared a video compilation of himself singing “Remember When,” along with family photos and video clips, writing, “Today marks the 20th anniversary of “Remember When”! Join us as we reflect on the wonderful memories we made along the way!”

Today marks the 20th anniversary of "Remember When"! Join us as we reflect on all of the wonderful memories made along the way! #RememberWhen20 pic.twitter.com/ciSWvBnV7Y

— Alan Jackson (@OfficialJackson) August 1, 2023

Alan Jackson’s Nerve Disease Diagnosis

Alan Jackson was diagnosed with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease in 2011, according to an interview with the “Today Show.” He revealed his diagnosis publicly about a decade later.

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“I've been reluctant to talk about this publicly and to my fans, but it's been a while, and it's starting to affect my performance on stage a little bit where I don't feel comfortable,” the singer said, when he disclosed show his diagnosis on the “TODAY” show in September 2021.

“I just wanted the fans and the public to know if they've come to see me in the last few years or if they come to see me in the future if I play anymore, what's going on. I don't want them to think I'm drunk on stage because I'm having problems with mobility and balance. I have this neuropathy, neurological disease I inherited from my daddy.”

Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease is an “inherited nerve defect that causes abnormalities in the nerves that supply your feet, legs, hands, and arms,” Johns Hopkins Medicine explains.

According to Mayo Clinic, symptoms associated with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease may include:

• Decreased ability to run
• Weakness in your legs, feet, and ankles
• Loss of muscle in your legs and feet
• Curled toes
• Higher than normal step or gait
• Frequent tripping or falling
• Loss of feeling in your legs and feet

In Jackson’s case, the disease affects his balance and mobility, which impacted his ability to perform on-stage as he had in the past.

“I know I'm stumbling around on stage. Now I'm having a little trouble balancing, even in front of the microphone, and so I just feel very uncomfortable,” he said.

Patients diagnosed with Charcot-Marie-Tooth disease may manage their symptoms through medications, and physical and occupational therapy designed to strengthen their muscles.

Confronting Health Challenges as a Couple

When you're facing a significant health challenge, it can make such a huge difference to have a supportive partner by your side just like Alan and Denise Jackson.

Jackson supported his wife as she underwent 30 days of radiation and two four-day rounds of chemotherapy in her fight against colon cancer.

She was ultimately dubbed cancer-free two months after her diagnosis. Now, she’s sticking through the tough times with her husband as he battles nerve disease.

Meanwhile, breast cancer survivor Rebecca Crews, wife of actor Terry Crews, also knows the benefits of facing challenges as a couple. Having her husband's "unwavering support" through all of life's ups and downs has made her confident the couple "can conquer anything."

In a previous conversation, we spoke with Crews and his wife about how her cancer battle affected their relationship. He told SurvivorNet that seeing his wife battle breast cancer was an “amazing thing to watch.”

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Crews explained, “I was proud of her. She became a warrior. I just sat back, and I was literally like, 'What do you need?' She was like, 'I got this. Let's go.’

“My wife and I have been through a lot of things. We've lost homes; we've lost children before things that would have taken a lot of people out and we survived them all.”

Similarly, actress and skin cancer survivor Jill Kargman also felt her relationship strengthen when she faced cancer.

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"I think cancer is a great way to find out if you're with the love of your life or a shithead," the melanoma survivor said. "I think it presses the fast forward button on getting to the bottom of that answer, because a lot of people in middle age are kind of at a crossroads, waiting for their kids to fly the coop.

"I think if you're with someone who is not supportive and kind of emotionally checked out or doesn't tell you you're still beautiful with that, this might not be your person."

Although we've spoken to people about how their relationships grew when a partner was faced with a health challenge, it's important to note that is not always the case.

Struggling within your relationship when a loved one is battling a health issue is not uncommon. Make sure communication is a priority for both people in the relationship, and remember to take care of yourself even when you're concerned about your partner.

If you are struggling in your relationship during cancer, know there are resources to help, such as talking with a therapist.

The Power of Love

Love is all around us. We don’t have to have a significant other to give or feel love from others. The history of love in our own family can be something fulfilling for us, giving us stories that we can cherish.

SurvivorNet spoke with a family who shared a story of their parents' love during World War II, and an amazing keepsake the family has from that time. A lovebox.

SurvivorNetTV Presents Lovebox A Love Story for the Ages

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