A Motorcyclist’s Prostate Cancer Advocacy
- Anthony Kalaj joined the Distinguished Gentleman’s Ride nine years ago after his father was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer. After later receiving his own diagnosis, Kalaj has remained committed to raising awareness about the disease and the importance of screening.
- Kalaj is sharing his story with SurvivorNet as part of the 12-film series “Men Beating The Odds,” hosted by NFL Legend Emmitt Smith. The series follows men as they live and thrive with advanced prostate cancer.
- Kalaj’s story about his awareness efforts and how he’s adjusting to life with cancer is told in the film, “Keep Rolling.”
- Prostate cancer screening guidelines suggest that men with a strong family history of prostate cancer, like Kalaj, get screened earlier than others, around age 40, because they have an increased risk of developing the disease.
Anthony was motivated to join the Distinguished Gentleman’s Ride after his father Pashko was diagnosed with prostate cancer. “I thought, I’m going to ride for my dad. I’m going to try this out,” Kalaj, of Orange County, California, tells SurvivorNet. Years later, it was his own diagnosis that motivated him to keep riding.
“In the past, we’ve always ridden for my dad. And then this year it became relevant because it was me. I was the one who was diagnosed with stage four prostate cancer,” Kalaj says.
The biker recounts loving motorcycles since he was a child. Kalaj, whose dad even took a photo of him sitting on a bike when he was about 18 months old, credits The Distinguished Gentleman’s Ride for raising millions just last year.
Despite choosing to ride for his dad and encouraging others to get checked for prostate cancer, Kalaj admits he was “too busy” with his business, family, hobbies, and overall life to prioritize his own health.
He ultimately was diagnosed with stage four metastatic prostate cancer and is now more determined then every to get other men to keep up with screenings. Kalaj was diagnosed after feeling unwell and experiencing an abnormally frequent need to urinate, including episodes where he had to go as often as every five minutes.
“Cancer doesn’t give you a choice,” he warns. “It was all over my pelvis. It was in my neck. It was in my clavicle. It was in every lymph node in my body. It was in my spine.”
Recounting how he had “massive” pain and difficulty getting on a motorcycle while battling the disease, he remained determined to regain his strength despite feeling weakened by treatment — and, of course, to participate in the Distinguished Gentlemen’s Ride again.
“The radiation definitely took out those tumors in my spine and helped me out. And I started working around the house and just picking up things and using my little hand exercises. And in three weeks, I couldn’t believe that transformation in my hand. And I thought, God, my body can rebuild,” says Kalaj.
“I could grab that clutch. I could ride the bike. I could feel myself taking command and I can ride again,” he adds.
Kalaj now strives to “live,” reminding others that “you have one life.”
“I’ve always said, ‘I don’t want to leave my mark. I want to leave a dent so that life knows I was there,'” he adds.
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Admitting how he’s learning to accept his diagnosis, he says he strives to focus on quality of life and peace of mind rather than dwelling on the uncertainty of how long he’ll live.
“Do I want to die? Of course not. I want to live. I need to live. I need to teach my grandson how to ride a motorcycle, how to fish, how to shoot, teach him all the man boy stuff that I learned from my dad and that my son is doing,” says Kalaj.
Though he admits cancer is a “mental challenge,” Kalaj prides himself on “kicking” cancer’s butt.
“I believe the mental thing is that you have to stay strong. You have to believe, and you have to keep going. You have to keep doing things,” he says, offering hope for others on a similar cancer journey.
“I still go to the shooting range. I still go grocery shopping. I’m still cooking for my wife. Yesterday, I took my motorcycle out. I polished the bike.”
Know Your Prostate Cancer Risk Factors
Prostate cancer is the most frequently diagnosed cancer among men. It begins in the prostate — a small, walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and rectum — that helps produce the fluid in semen. The good news is that routine screenings often detect prostate cancer early, when it’s most treatable.
Men with a family history often face a higher risk of being diagnosed at a younger age than those without one. Black men also have a higher risk of developing the disease.
“Prostate cancer affects men of all walks of life, but it affects them differently,” Dr. Edwin Posadas, Medical Director of the Urologic Oncology Program at Cedars-Sinai, told SurvivorNet in an earlier interview. “It’s important to note that the incidence of prostate cancer in African-American men is 60% higher, and they are two to three times more likely to die from the disease.”
When you go in for screening, your doctor may perform a few key tests, including:
- A PSA (prostate-specific antigen) blood test: This measures the level of PSA protein in your bloodstream. While higher-than-normal PSA levels can be a sign of prostate cancer, they can also result from other conditions, such as an enlarged prostate, infection, or inflammation.
- Digital rectal exam (DRE): Doctors check the prostate for any unusual lumps or changes in texture.
If anything abnormal is found, further tests — such as imaging scans or a biopsy — may be recommended to get a clearer diagnosis.
According to the American Cancer Society, men at average risk should consider starting prostate cancer screenings at age 50. Those at higher risk — such as men with a strong family history — may need to begin screening earlier, around age 40. In some cases, men with an immediate relative diagnosed at a young age might consider annual screenings starting in their 30s.
Generally, most healthcare professionals agree that routine screening is not necessary for men over 70.
SurvivorNet experts suggested that men consider factors like their family history, genes, and age when deciding whether and when to screen.
Symptoms of prostate cancer may include:
- Urinating more often
- Waking up in the middle of the night to pee
- Blood in your urine
- Trouble getting an erection
- Pain or burning when you urinate
- Pain in your back, hips, thighs, or other bones
- Unexplained weight loss
- Fatigue
Even if you are not due for screening, if you develop any of these symptoms, it is worth it to bring the concerns to a doctor.
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