Aly Taylor and her husband Josh, the young stars of TLC’s “Rattled,” which follows four couples through their experiences as new parents, were planning to have a child when breast cancer made that a lot more difficult. Now, in a modern day miracle, they are the overjoyed parents to three beautiful children.
Aly and Josh were married for three years before they decided to have a child. When Aly, at age 24, read that sore breasts were a sign of pregnancy, she started feeling her breasts and found a lump, which turned out to be very aggressive, stage 3 breast cancer. Aly went through 16 rounds of chemo, followed by double mastectomy and 30 radiation treatments.
Read MoreOne painful side effect of Aly’s cancer treatments is that the chemotherapy and radiation severely damaged her reproductive system. Doctors told her it would be next to impossible to get pregnant, and that if she did become pregnant, that she’d likely miscarry.
After her treatment, the couple found a baby that they wanted to adopt. There were a few hiccups, like when the baby’s birth mom thought she might want to keep the child, but they ultimate brought home a girl named Genevieve. “We realized we would have never had Genevieve had I not gone through cancer. We really didn't know if we would be parents again. We went through so much to have her and were so happy," Aly said.
Nine months later, Aly learned she was actually pregnant. "For a long time it didn't feel real because I had accepted that I wouldn't have a baby biologically and given up dream of carrying a baby," she said.
We aren’t sure the details of Aly’s case, or how she was able to become a mom after chemotherapy, but we do know that for most women who have chemotherapy without preserving their eggs first, egg donors are often a recommended solution.
“If you have gone through chemotherapy and you didn’t freeze eggs or embryos, oftentimes women ar put into menopause, whether it’s a premature menopause or early menopause, their ovarian function is no longer adequate,” says Dr. Jaime Knopman, Director of Fertility Preservation at CCRM Fertility Clinic in New York City.
“And so in that case, we can still help women become parents and carry pregnancies, but it would be with an egg donor,” Dr. Knopman continues. “We would help you select someone who you feel– the characteristics that you would want to represent in your child.”
Dr. Jamie Knopman on egg donors after chemotherapy
Aly says that her pregnancy was natural, and miraculous and she believed it was impossible for her to conceive a healthy child.
After her pregnancy, Aly received a call from Genevieve’s birth mom. She was having another child, and wanted Aly to adopt her too. After two adoptions and one pregnancy, Aly is the proud mother of three.
Throughout Aly’s journey, her husband Josh was there to encourage her. "I let Aly know she wasn't by herself," Josh told She Knows. "It's not that Aly is not getting pregnant, it's Josh and Aly haven't gotten pregnant yet. We have to be careful we don't put it all on women."
And Aly was grateful for his continued honesty and partnership. "Josh did a great with that, joining me in the happy moments and the sad moments. You have to get back on the hope train,” Aly added. “We went through years of that and Josh would ride the waves with me instead of trying to act like everything is okay. Get in the muck with your partner and always be helpful and believe it will happen and don't prepare for the worst."
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